self-esteem is for losers

Steve Salerno from Skeptic Magazine has written an article on “positive thinking” and how it makes people stupid. One section discusses the self-esteem-based education movement of the 1970’s, which celebrated mediocrity by lowering grade standards and ditching honor roles. Some students were given more recognition if they were below the standards, with the thinking that, “to make at-risk kids excel, you first had to make them feel optimistic and empowered.” Instead it’s created a culture of individuals that will be satisfied regardless of their failures. “If the school system failed to imbue students with genuine self-esteem, it was more successful at fomenting narcissism.”

Right. Anyone raised under this systems knows that. The idea that you can do it is only motivating when you think other people can’t do it. If anyone can be president, why would you want to be? That is hard work!

I was wondering if I’m Narcissistic (actually, I’ve always wondered that after being raised to go into theatre), but I took USA Today’s version of the Narcissistic Personality Inventory and scored way lower than average. I win at low self-esteem!

(Question 27 is weird. You choose between:

A. I have a strong will to power.
B. Power for its own sake doesn’t interest me.

Is this an intentional reference to Nietzsche?)

The Skeptic article reminded me of an article on child prodigies that I read in the Encyclopedia Britannica’s Medical and Health Annual from 1989 (I was cutting out pictures in it). One thing surprised me:

    It is difficult to imagine that such a gift could possibly founder, much less deliberately be set aside. Nevertheless, this, in fact, seems to be more the rule than the exception. . . as children, prodigies never produce works of genius and, as adults, they may or may not pursue their careers.

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Of course!

If you attain easy success as a child for being mediocre-in-the-field–but a KID– what could drive you any further?

Praise at an early age is bad for everyone. Let’s start a pessimism-based education movement.

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Thoughts: (0) | Apr 17 2009

the facts for today.

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Thoughts: (0) | Oct 28 2008

we guess that sometimes london needs a blog.

Lindsey has the EEEEEE sound like baby or kitty.
the facts:

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Thoughts: (3) | Oct 11 2008

AHHHHHHHH!!!

one of the short stories I have to critique for my class is about a pimp-Jew that finds Jesus. It’s the most offensive story ever.

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Thoughts: (0) | Aug 11 2007

BURNED OUT

There was this time when TRAVIS VERMIE and I took Kitten to the park so she could hunt rabbits, but we put her on a leash and she didn’t like it. First she tried to resist by digging her feet into the ground, and then she just rolled over onto her back so we had to drag her. It was really funny that she was so resistant but of course I went and picked her up.

So. That’s about how I’ve felt for the last two quarters. Just a few weeks ago I rolled over onto my back.

But today I’ve gone beyond that. I’ve dug a rut into the ground or maybe gained a few thousand tons. SOMETHING. But I won’t move another inch no matter how hard I’m tugged.

I can’t even finsish this quarter. Too bad I only get one annual drop.

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Thoughts: (0) | Jan 30 2005